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Briel Cavil's avatar

You hit a nerve! That fugue state. That surprise happiness of parenting that randomly descends in the middle of the slog. You gotta keep writing, man. Thank you for this.

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Adam Cayton-Holland's avatar

Thanks so much for reading!

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Dammit Damian's avatar

God damn this was GREAT. It really hit the feels. No kids for me, I'm too crazy and don't want to pass it along... But i end up at these kinds of parties all the time and I know how it feels and you hit me in the feels.

I'm so happy you're writing regularly and putting it out there. My favorite writers are columnists/essay writers and someday soon i suspect I'll list you with my favorites, David Sedaris & Dave Barry. I think i can make room for a non-Dave person on my list. Love this stuff. Thank you for sharing. Congrats on everything. You've earned it the hard way. 🖤

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Adam Cayton-Holland's avatar

Aw thanks, Damian. Honored to be considered amongst the Dave's.

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Nicole Annan's avatar

Was it Blue Pan pizza?!

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Adam Cayton-Holland's avatar

I'll never tell! This is fiction. But yes.

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Aaron C's avatar

Love your writing. Really and truly. This one resonates. Raised kids. Made the small talk at countless events. The parents of your kids’ friends, teammates, classmates becomes your new “friend” pool. It’s mostly awkward, obligatory and sometimes torturous. But thankfully there will be some keepers. But like all things, it’s temporary. And it will go by too fast. And then you’ll miss it.

Looking forward to your next one. And we will see you at your November shows.

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Adam Cayton-Holland's avatar

I keep hearing about the it goes by too fast stuff. My oldest turns six this week. Can't believe how fast those six years went. Absolutely wild.

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